Saturday, October 9, 2010

She Hath Done What She Could by Carolyn

My neighbor has four beautiful daughters. Over the years, as the family grew, one by one each joined her older sisters for our Friday afternoon Bible study. We established a routine. The first thing we do is eat! Children are pretty hungry when they get home from school and the girls love to eat and talk about what happened during the day. There is nothing like the chatter of four girls just arrived home from school!

After a while, we head for the living room where we sit on the floor, get quiet, say a prayer and listen to a story from the Bible. Quickly, they are captivated for the Bible is full of exciting, memorable, odd and unusual stories that can apply to any life; even the lives of children ages 4-12! When they hear about Noah, or Daniel in the lion's den, or Mary, as the angel tells her she will give birth to the Son of God, they are fascinated. Adam and Eve in the garden trying to defend themselves before a Holy God, grip their minds as they picture the details of snake luring Eve into eating the apple, and Eve tempting Adam into eating the apple too.

Satan is not happy with this arrangement. Lately, he's been up to some dirty tricks.

My neighbor and I find ourselves on opposing sides of political issue. We do not see eye to eye and we are both passionate about our beliefs. It has led to some very challenging and heartfelt discussions between the two of us and has put a little barrier between us for now. It is perplexing and disconserting. We both know that Jesus would have us put aside our differences and come together in Him.

What do we do about this? Agree to disagree? We do, but neither of us is satisfied with the result and I wonder where this will lead.

Knowing how hard and passionately my friend has tried to persuade others to her point of view, a story comes to mind. She reminds me of Mary, Matha's sister, who risked it all when she took her alabaster bottle of perfume to anoint Jesus before His crucifixion. Judas was fit to be tied. He said she wasted that bottle of perfume. It could have been sold and the money used to help the poor. "Leave her alone," Jesus said. "She hath done what she could."

My friend "hath done what she could" and I tell her that. No matter what the outcome, we can give thanks that our Lord has provided each of us a heart that cares for our community, for our children, and for our faith. We pick our battles, but we rest in the knowledge of Romans 8:28, that whatever happens, "We know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose." We can rest in peace!


  1. Thank you for sharing this story with us.It is definitely possible that friends can be friends but have different opinions about matters. Appreciate your efforts to keep it going.

    Would you like to join for some Coffee with Jesus?!

    Sure, bring your friend along, and yes her beautiful daughters too.

    Love you in Christ,

  2. Dear NRI Girl - thanks for posting. I am the other half of the coffeepotgospel gals. I am sure you will hear from Carolyn too, but in the meantime, thanks for your comment. Both our blogs have the same idea - an intimate relationship with Jesus, and with his followers. And that is what will ultimately hold Carolyn and her neighbor together - the loving, forgiving relationships represented by the vertical and horizontal of the Cross.

  3. "Coffee Time with Jesus" and "Coffeepotgospel" both encourage readers to spend time with Jesus. When we do, we quickly see He is all we need to sit down in quiet calm and stand up tall ready to take action in His name! Thank YOU NRIGirl for inviting us to join hands at the table!

    Serving Together,
    Coffeepotgospel gals